Try as I might, I cannot perceive why females get so crazy about boys who look nice and sing. Being a boy doesn't help the understanding at all. I know it's something to do with their adolescence, but it looks stupid to me.
I mean, what's the difference between us boyfriends and them idols? Why is it that every wrong they do isn't condemnable while a small error from our part implies a thunderstorm? Why is it that whenever the girls see them, they melt and when they see us, it sometimes feels as if we didn't even exist?
Is it, maybe, that deep down they know the idols can never be theirs (and thus they won't be burdened by their troubles) while we are an eternal cross on their backs? Why does an idol's wink bring more joy than any gift we can ever present?
I go as far as comparing this girls' behavior to the boys' inclination of appreciation of the females' body without consideration of the person within.
The big difference is that they boys' act is morally and socially deplorable while the girls' acts are widely accepted and manifested en masse all over the world and through all media.
I suppose girlfriends totally detest it when their boyfriends fix their eyes on some sexy gal. May they know that us men feel as much, if not more, in a bad state when they melt at the sight of these idols.
God grant us to be happy with what we have. "Wish not another man's woman" was his 10th commandment. Is there room for the corollary?
2 comments:
With reference to my own blog, it's rather funny to hear something like this come out of the mouth of a male!! In reality whilst we(females) regard male idols as simply being so, you(males) have to see female stars and other women to be connotated with sex as in "Ara x'sorm ghandha!" and all the rest. Methinks that there is a real difference and most of the time we do it to pay you back for your constant drolling over living sticks with big boobs anyway.
Oh yes... I can see the young girls on concerts screaming their hearts out to the singing idol on stage just to spite the boyfriend who is nowhere near...
For your information, my wife is nothing like a stick with big boobs and I do find her sexy.
Stereotyping seems to be a great friend of yours - haven't u ever heard the priest say 'Is-sabih trid tghidlu sabih'. So if I like somebody's face it means I want to lay her? I like Gwyneth Paltrow's face, but would never imagine anything else about her.
I hope you mature in your ideas about males...
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